Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Back to life, back to reality

I've just returned from a three day, four night cruise to the Bahamas aboard Royal Caribbean's "Majesty of the Seas". Oh, what a lovely trip!

It was our first cruise ever, and aside from the first night's rough waters and subsequent queasiness, we plan on doing it again. I can't say I'll choose such a tiny cabin again, though. We had an oceanview cabin, but it was a miniscule 122 square feet! I think my bathroom/closet area at home is bigger. I understand that other ships have larger cabins - that "Majesty" and her sisters have some of the smallest cabins in the genre today, so we'll be looking for one of her bigger sisters, or a different cruise line entirely.

The service aboard ship was impeccable. The crew members really are there to ensure that your stay in their floating city is a pleasant one. Activities were happening all the time, and there was no pressure to join in if you didn't want to. We relaxed in our cabin and watched a couple movies during our trip - neither of us is an extrovert - and we never felt bad about doing so.

Shore excursions were of a wide enough variety that there was something for everyone. Being more brain than brawn, my husband and I opted for the historical tours of forts, old homes and museums. We had a lot of fun and learned a bit about Nassau and Key West that we hadn't known before.

Key West....ah! I fell in love, taking almost 300 photos while we were there. The Caribbean Colonial architecture, the tropical foliage...it is paradise. A very laid back place to spend the day, and neither of us wanted to leave. We plan to make Key West a stop in future cruises, just to experience more of that wondrous atmosphere.

If you go to Key West, be sure to stop by Kelly's restaurant. You'll find it next to Heritage House & Robert Frost cottage, and they make the best damned cheeseburger I've ever had in my life! You can eat out on the lush patio (photo) that feels more like a tropical garden, thick with shade and an atmosphere that makes you just drop your shoulders and say "ahhh".

Nassau was our first stop, and it was pleasant. The people were friendly, though it seemed that every time we turned around, they were asking for tips. Everyone who did anything at all for you, including tour guides, asked for a tip. It got a little laughable when the guide at Fort Fincastle asked for a tip - his 'tour' consisted of very little about the fort and his pointing out various buildings in hurried fashion from a platform. The whole thing lasted five minutes and left us with no more information about the fort than that the cannons were replicas, as Britain had reclaimed the originals.

Riding through Nassau in our little air-conditioned tour bus (whose driver was a wonderful storyteller and was worth a tip even without asking for one), we could see just how poor these people really are. Homes that had been burned were left that way, cheek to jowl with other small hovels. How the cry of "fire!" must stop their hearts! Conditions were pitiful in many residential areas. By contrast, those who live well there really live well. Such stark contrast prompted one of our group to comment on it, and our driver explained that the island is 85% black and 15% white, and that 85% of the wealth is held by 15% of the people. A very unbalanced situation no matter how they slice it.

The Straw Market was an experience not to be missed. It was an odd mixture of heartbreak and annoyance, since every woman we passed asked us to buy something from her. Some merely asked, others cajoled and called me "pretty girl", as in "Pretty girl, you need a pretty bag!", trying to sell her stock of designer or knock-off purses. Poor things, they didn't know how little I care about brands... In any case, these women were spaced about four feet apart - so one has to traverse the cramped space where 600 vendors are all trying so hard to get your dollar. It got difficult to keep saying no, and they likely capitalize on that, figuring if one doesn't get the sale, you might buckle under the strain by the time you reach her sister's spot, or her aunt's or cousin's, for that matter. I did purchase an item - it's a wooden box that is the perfect size for my tarot cards. Beautiful woodwork, and it was $20 after I hesitated at $25. Shrewd dealers, these women.

One of the more touching things in the Straw Market was a stall that had been covered in black fabric. A large framed photo of a woman rested there, and there were cards and such - she had died, and the other women turned her stall into a memorial for her. I wanted to take a photo, but didn't; I felt they might take it as a sign of disrespect.

Cococay was the second stop on our cruise (it went Nassau, Cococay, Key West), and we never set foot on the island. The waters were deemed too rough for the tenders to safely transport guests, so after waiting a couple hours to see if conditions improved, we pulled up anchor and sailed for Key West. I was a little disappointed; my main objective at Cococay was photography. I wanted to fill a camera card with the lush tropical beach scenery. I know others were sad to miss out on things like parasailing, snorkeling and more. Maybe next time!

If anyone has any doubts about whether or not to cruise, I offer this advice. Do it! A short cruise, like the one we took, can give you a great sampling of what there is to offer, and you'll know by the end of the week if you love it or hate it. For our part, we found we love it. The only thing I'd do differently would be to use a cruise line that serves Pepsi products, since I can't drink Coke (causes me great pain). But life is far too short to sit on the fence and wonder. As Royal Caribbean says..."Get out there!".

Monday, February 4, 2008

Photography Goodies In the Mail

More of the goodies I ordered from amazon.com came today, some by mail, some by carrier. I love getting packages!

I ordered a bunch of stuff at the end of last week for our upcoming cruise. Jeep Dad's employer is especially pleased with him, so we were given a three day, four night cruise in the Caribbean! I'm getting pretty excited about the whole thing, and am looking forward to taking tons of pictures.

I'm enrolled in an online photography course through the local community college, and what I've been learning there has helped me choose better accessories and tools for this trip; things like a good camera bag, and filters that will help with the sun's glare. The filters took some research, because my camera's lens extends a couple inches out from the camera when you turn it on, and retracts when it's off. There was no means to attach filters or other lenses, so I was a little disappointed until I came across this adapter. It is made by Olympus (my camera's manufacturer) and is a tube that screws into threads that I never even saw on the inside of the outer tube that houses the retractable lens. This adapter makes the opening a more standard size, and puts the filter at the end of the reach of the lens when it sticks out. Awesome little tool that will very much put off my search for another camera! I also managed to pick up a set of three filters (haven't arrived yet), two spare rechargeable batteries and a 2GB xD card. I'm hoping to have lots of great pictures to show off to the class (and this blog) when I get back!

Sunday, February 3, 2008

Sunday Papers

Over the last couple of days, I've been reading a lot about how to do "CVS deals" and "Walgreens deals". Using coupons, rebates and store loyalty cards, one can apparently get a lot of stuff free or close to free. So, increasingly excited by the prospect of challenging myself to see how much free stuff I can get and how much dough I can save, I made a point of reminding Jeep Dad to pick up the Sunday paper for me. I only want the store ads and the coupons - the rest will be fireplace kindling.

So, he dutifully picks one up on his way back from golf and drops it off before heading to his buddy's house for the Super Bowl. Eagerly, I dove into the folds and pages of the thick Sunday edition. All the store ads got sorted into three piles: "definitely", "maybe", and "probably not, but you never know what they might have". I finally got to the bottom of the stack of newsprint and glossy ads, and....my coupon stack was still empty. Thinking I'd missed it, I pored over the entire paper again.

Nope.

There are no coupons in my Sunday paper! I'm so disappointed! And miffed! All that potential savings, gone. CVS even tauntingly put "look for coupons in sunday's paper" on their store flyer. That's it, rub it in.

In my pursuit of coupons, I've come across many sites where you can print them, and I've done that, but nothing beats the those shiny Sunday inserts, in my book. I had even looked into subscribing to the local metro paper (Sunday edition only, of course), but when I went to the website to get pricing and other information, they wanted me to give them my name, address, email, phone number, etc. I didn't want to give out all that just to get prices, so I emailed and asked. They very politely (yet still unhelpfully) pointed me to that same link, even though I had told them I wasn't giving them my personal information just to kick the tires, so to speak.

So, after finding no coupons in the Sunday paper my husband bought at the store, I emailed the polite people at the paper back and asked them "Do subscribers always get the coupon inserts?". We'll see what the answer is. Somehow, I think it will be another useless link that tries to harvest my personal data. So much for customer service.

Taking It Out of Park

Every now and then, I kick around the idea of starting another blog. I read other blogs, I read sites about blogs, and then I come to the conclusion that my life is too kaleidoscopic for the narrow point of view most blog 'experts' recommend.

Today I came to another conclusion about that: "so what".

I'm not out to make money, I'm not looking to be hired to blog professionally. I really wouldn't even be bothered if nobody read this but my cat. So why blog in the first place? Well, to put my two cents out there, for one thing. With so many heavy political blogs, and so many sickeningly cheerful mommy blogs out there, I figured I'd put my thoughts and opinions out there, too.

Now, you might be wondering about the title. On an obvious level, I hate minivans and refuse to ever drive one. I just can't stomach the thought of being one of them. You know...(looks around, then whispers) soccer moms. I refuse to buy into the notion that running the kids to 57 different activities is somehow good for them, or me for that matter. The minivan screams to me 'here is a person whose life has become that of a taxi driver'.

I'm of the (sometimes unpopular) opinion that having kids shouldn't mean my life revolves 100% around them. They are part of my life, yes, and I love them. But they are not my entire life. I have lots of other interests, and they don't include kids. I don't have a problem with it, Jeep Dad doesn't have a problem with it, and the kids seem to be just fine with it. But boy, do other people get bent out of shape! How dare I have kids and not cater every second, every breath to them! How dare I keep up with my hobbies and intellectual pursuits and not anchor my self-esteem to my kids' accomplishments!

I guess I just feel that I'm raising kids who are more independent than many I see out there, while maintaining the 'me' that will still be here when they've moved on. I don't see myself suffering badly from empty nest syndrome. I don't see my kids having big problems with cutting the apron strings when the time comes. Our family has a foundation of love, caring, and preparing the kids for life; not a foundation of dependence. There is a huge difference, and it seems to be blurred in some families.

So...what do I drive? A Jeep. It fits the five of us very nicely, hauls our groceries and gear, and seems to suit my practical personality very well.